Here Are All The Signs You’re Dating Or Married To A Grounded Man

For more than fifteen years, Sabrina Alexis Bendory has studied the mechanics of dating and love. Here she very clearly lists out the signs of a grounded man.

And here she explains, ever so simply, that the signs of a grounded man are subtle but unmistakable, revealed not through declarations, but through consistency, presence, and care in his actions.

Dating a grounded man looks like this:

• You don’t have to guess how he feels about you.
• He follows through on what he says.
• He makes plans — and keeps them.
• He’s not addicted to the chase. He’s available for connection.
• He welcomes your emotions instead of shrinking from them.
• He’s not intimidated by your strength, nor envious of your shine.
• He talks about the future — and includes you in it.
• He doesn’t love bomb or breadcrumb. He builds.
• His presence feels safe, not performative.
• You don’t have to abandon yourself to keep him.
• He doesn’t leer at other women or try to provoke jealousy — because he honors your heart and his own integrity.