Sabrina Bendory

Relationship Coach
Bestselling Author
Entrepreneur
Sabrina Alexis Bendory is a pioneering blogging entrepreneur who is globally recognized as a dating and relationship expert.
She co-founded the website A New Mode, where she wrote relatable and insightful articles about relationship dynamics that have helped millions of women achieve the love they desire.
Today, Sabrina is one of the most authoritative and popular sources for dating advice on TikTok and Instagram. She also publishes weekly columns on relationships for Thought Catalog and is sought after life coach.
Her best-selling book, You're Overthinking It: Find Lifelong Love By Being Your True Self, was published in 2023 by Thought Catalog Books and is the ultimate guidebook to life and dating. Her new book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible will be released in September 2025.
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Monday, June 30, 2025
5 Zodiacs Who Almost Always Run Away From Love
1. Gemini You fall in love pretty quickly. You are genuinely interested in curious about other people and are able to…
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Monday, June 9, 2025
These 5 Zodiac Signs Are The Ultimate Husbands & Life Partners
1. Taurus A Taurus is the most reliable and dependable sign in all of the zodiac, qualities that are essential in…
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Monday, March 31, 2025
5 Zodiacs That Truly Are The Best Life Partners
1. Taurus A Taurus is the most reliable and dependable sign in all of the zodiac, qualities that are essential in…
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Wednesday, January 8, 2025
The Toxic Trait Each Zodiac Must Address
The fact is, everyone can be a little toxic some of the time… for other people, it’s a lot of the…
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10 Things Women Who Value Their Self-Worth Do In Their Relationships
Here are ten things people with high self-esteem do differently in their relationships…
The Day I Stopped Begging For Love And Started Choosing Myself
Sabrina Alexis Bendory is the author of Detached and You’re Overthinking It. Sabrina specializes in helping people build unshakable self-worth, break unhealthy patterns, and attract the love they deserve Oh what a day that will be!
The True Reason Men Cheat That Has Little To Do With You
So here is the real reason why men cheat…
6 Relationship Lessons I Wish I Knew Before Wasting Decades Of Time
Sabrina Bendory is the author Detached: How To Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible and You’re Overthinking It.
5 Real Ways To End the Constant Stress In Your Relationship
Sabrina Bendory, author of Detached, explains how to stop stressing out so much with your partner.
12 Phrases You Should Never Say To A Man
Sabrina Alexis Bendory on some phrases that will often blow up right in your face. Let’s go over some landmine phrases you should never say.
5 Ways To Ditch Relationship Stress (So You Can Finally Be Happy)
One of the biggest relationship mistakes I see women make is stressing over their relationship, whether it’s in the dating stage or in a more established relationship.
The ONE Thing Every Woman Needs To Know About Men
Sabrina Bendory is a renowned relationship expert, dating coach, and best-selling author of Detached: How To Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible. Here, she lets women in on a little secret: what men want and need in a partner.
What’s Really Standing Between You And Your Soulmate
Sabrina Bendory shares the secret of finding your soulmate. Sabrina is the author of the book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible. Here is the simple truth.
5 Signs They’re Not Soulmate Material (& Never Going To Commit)
You might not want to read this… but you NEED to.
7 Crystal Clear Signs You’re A Toxic Person
While it’s much easier to blame other people for everything that goes wrong… sometimes it’s us. Sometimes we’re the problem, we’re the toxic ones. Eek. There’s a truth no one really wants to admit. First, it’s OK.
5 Concrete Reasons The Guys You Want Don’t Want You
One of the most frustrating and puzzling relationship issues is determining why the guys you want don’t seem to want you. Here is how it usually goes.
5 Signs It’s Not Regular Relationship “Ups And Downs,” It’s Emotionally Toxic
Sabrina Bendory is a renowned relationship expert, dating coach, and best-selling author of Detached: How To Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible. Here, she walks through five glaring signals that you’re trapped in a toxic relationship.
The Most Realistic Description Of Love, In Just Six Paragraphs
Forget the butterflies and the intensity for a moment. Those feelings fade, no matter who you choose. What matters more is the life you’re building and who you’re building it with. So take a moment and picture your future.
The #1 Thing Every Woman Needs To Know About Men
I constantly get asked to share the number one thing I’ve learned about men since I became a relationship coach.
5 Mistakes Women Make That Make Men See Them As Desperate
Let’s talk about how you might unintentionally be pushing guys away and turning them off.
If He Only Wants To Hook Up, He’ll Do These 12 Things Without Fail
Relationship expert Sabrina Alexis Bendory shares the very clear signs he just wants to hit the mattress. Sabrina is the author of the book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible.
A Relationship Expert’s Take On Taylor Swift And Travis Kelce: All The Green Flags
We’ve seen Taylor Swift in a lot of relationships over the years.