Sabrina Bendory

Relationship Coach
Bestselling Author
Entrepreneur
Sabrina Alexis Bendory is a pioneering blogging entrepreneur who is globally recognized as a dating and relationship expert.
She co-founded the website A New Mode, where she wrote relatable and insightful articles about relationship dynamics that have helped millions of women achieve the love they desire.
Today, Sabrina is one of the most authoritative and popular sources for dating advice on TikTok and Instagram. She also publishes weekly columns on relationships for Thought Catalog and is sought after life coach.
Her best-selling book, You're Overthinking It: Find Lifelong Love By Being Your True Self, was published in 2023 by Thought Catalog Books and is the ultimate guidebook to life and dating. Her new book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible will be released in September 2025.
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Sabrina Bendory
Why Narcissists Destroy So Deeply
This essay is an excerpt from the book Detached by author Sabrina Alexis Bendory. You can read the full book here.
Here Are All The Signs You’re Dating Or Married To A Grounded Man
For more than fifteen years, Sabrina Alexis Bendory has studied the mechanics of dating and love. Here she very clearly lists out the signs of a grounded man.
Why ‘Almost Relationships’ Are Destroying People More Than Actual Breakups
Let’s talk about almost relationships. The ones with no label, no closure, no clear beginning or end. But somehow… they still wreck you. People will say, “But it wasn’t even a real relationship.” And technically, maybe that’s true.
5 Zodiac Signs That Make The Best Husbands + Life Partners
1. Taurus A Taurus is the most reliable and dependable sign in all of the zodiac, qualities that are essential in a partner. When a Taurus commits himself, he goes all in.
This Is Your Love Language, Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Most people are familiar with the five love languages, popularized by Gary Chapman.
5 Misconceptions About Love That Are Keeping You From Finding It
Here are the top five biggest misconceptions about love.
The Real Difference Between A Relationship That Lasts Forever And One That Doesn’t
Sabrina Bendory is the author of You’re Overthinking It and Detached. Here’s a situation I’ve definitely found myself in and I’m sure you can relate. You meet someone, something clicks, and suddenly a force takes you over.
20 Cutting Questions To Ask Your Partner That Will Deepen Your Connection
In this age of endless connection, we are more disconnected than ever and most relationships don’t go very far beyond the surface.
Why People Pleasers Often Have Low Self-Esteem
This is why people-pleasers often have low self-esteem. Not because they lack confidence altogether, but because they lack the self-respect it takes to be truly self-assertive. They’re not okay just being themselves.
10 Things Women Who Value Their Self-Worth Do In Their Relationships
Here are ten things people with high self-esteem do differently in their relationships…
The Day I Stopped Begging For Love And Started Choosing Myself
Sabrina Alexis Bendory is the author of Detached and You’re Overthinking It. Sabrina specializes in helping people build unshakable self-worth, break unhealthy patterns, and attract the love they deserve Oh what a day that will be!
The True Reason Men Cheat That Has Little To Do With You
So here is the real reason why men cheat…
6 Relationship Lessons I Wish I Knew Before Wasting Decades Of Time
Sabrina Bendory is the author Detached: How To Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible and You’re Overthinking It.
5 Real Ways To End the Constant Stress In Your Relationship
Sabrina Bendory, author of Detached, explains how to stop stressing out so much with your partner.
12 Phrases You Should Never Say To A Man
Sabrina Alexis Bendory on some phrases that will often blow up right in your face. Let’s go over some landmine phrases you should never say.
5 Ways To Ditch Relationship Stress (So You Can Finally Be Happy)
One of the biggest relationship mistakes I see women make is stressing over their relationship, whether it’s in the dating stage or in a more established relationship.
The ONE Thing Every Woman Needs To Know About Men
Sabrina Bendory is a renowned relationship expert, dating coach, and best-selling author of Detached: How To Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible. Here, she lets women in on a little secret: what men want and need in a partner.
What’s Really Standing Between You And Your Soulmate
Sabrina Bendory shares the secret of finding your soulmate. Sabrina is the author of the book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible. Here is the simple truth.



