10 Signs You Are Not Organically A ‘Relationship Person’

10 Signs You Are Not Organically A ‘Relationship’ Person
God & Man

1. You have a low need for companionship.

You enjoy the company of a partner, but don’t really need one. You aren’t actively looking for someone to fill a void. You are independent and content with your own life.

2. You refuse to be in a relationship for the sake of it.

You don’t want to be with someone because you’re lonely or because it’s convenient or because you should pair up because that’s what everyone is doing. You want to be with someone because you’re in crazy, stupid love.

3. You are emotionally detached.

You don’t get too attached because you know that most people are temporary. You like keeping things light. Heavy emotional scenes, drama, and conflict drain you.

4. You have varied interests and hobbies.

Love is not the first thing on your mind. You are passionate about working towards fulfilling your potential. You gain happiness from different activities and don’t feel the need to compensate for a lack of it by a relationship.

5. You want to experience life to its fullest.

You really enjoy meeting new people and the thought of spending so much time with just one person in a world of billions scares you.

6. You unconsciously sabotage relationships.

Once in a while, you chance upon someone you actually like but then proceed to pick apart their faults. You convince yourself that they’re wrong for you when in reality you’re simply not trying hard enough.

7. You are an explorer.

While everyone is busy getting married, you’re planning your next travel adventure or considering moving to a new city or thinking of trying out a new career.

8. You are used to doing things your way.

You like choosing how to spend your own time and energy. You don’t really want to deal with the responsibility of someone else’s needs and demands.

9. You crave freedom.

You think you are ready to take the leap but when someone great comes along, you start freaking out that you have to spend the rest of your life with them. You feel trapped and want to leave.

10. You don’t do relationships.

You can’t remember the last time you actually liked someone enough to commit to them. You’re so used to being alone by now, you’re not even sure what it would feel like. TC mark

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