This Is The Type Of Guy You Never Give A Chance, (But Should) Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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(March 21st to April 19th)

You like the guys who can keep up with you. Your energy is endless, and you can’t stand sitting still. You never give the laid-back guy a chance, the kind of guy who appreciates relaxation, and doesn’t need adrenaline running through his veins to have fun. You should give the guy who brings calm into your life a chance.


(April 20th to May 21st)

You like the guys who look good on paper (and in person). You want the guy who has a ‘good’ job with a higher than average paying salary, who lives by himself in a larger than average apartment, a guy who maintains his appearance by going to the gym and a real hair salon, a guy who you can brag about to all of your friends. You never give chances to the guy who maybe doesn’t have it all, but who has enough to make you truly happy. He might not be a doctor or lawyer, but maybe he’s an artist with a real passion for what he creates, he might not have tons of money, but maybe he has compassion and kindness that will make you feel loved. You never give the underdog a chance, and in your case it might not hurt to try.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

You like the guys who don’t stick around, and it’s probably because you like many different ‘types’ of people. You don’t have just one ‘type’ you have multiple. You don’t really know what you want when it comes to love and relationships, which leads you to date people who don’t know what they want either. You never give the super-committed, decisive guy a chance, and you should. Someone who is certain of exactly what they want would be good for you.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You like the guys who are in your inner circle. You only date guys who you already know, who you’re already friends with, or who you’ve even dated before. You don’t really enjoy meeting new people because you have no motivation to put yourself out there and actually do it. You never give the guy you’ve never met before a chance, and you definitely should. It would be refreshing for you to go on a blind date with someone your friends or family try to set you up with, someone you’ve never met before, someone who you aren’t necessarily completely comfortable with (yet), but could be as time passes and as you get to know them. At least someone new will get you away from dating your ex again.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You like the shy and quiet guys, someone who doesn’t try to take away your spotlight, someone who lets you, and wants you to have it. You never give the guy who competes with you a chance. You don’t like the extroverted, funny guy because you want to be the extroverted, funny one. You don’t have to give up your spotlight, but maybe sharing it with someone might be a refreshing change of course for you.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You like the guys who are ALWAYS the center of attention, mostly so you don’t have to be. You tend to go for guys who enjoy feeling like they’re better than you (even when they’re not). You never give the practical, respectful guy a chance, the kind of guy who wants to know what’s happening in your life, instead of constantly talking about his. You should give the guy who doesn’t just care about himself a chance.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You like guys who like what you like, because you tend to think you should date someone who has all the same interests as you. You never give the guy who’s basically your opposite a chance. Just because you like football and he likes baseball doesn’t mean you two can’t have a relationship. Having different interests is a good thing. Libras need balance, and dating someone who has different hobbies and passions than you actually might tip the scale in the right direction.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You like guys who are brutally honest, the kind of guys who have no filters, and say it like they mean it, but sometimes they mistake honesty for disrespect. Your partner should always be honest with you, but there’s a line between rude and honest, and you like the guys who are comfortable crossing it. You never give the nice guy a chance, the kind of guy who doesn’t constantly put you down just because he claims it’s the truth. You should give the friendly guy a chance.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

You like the guys who you meet while you travel, the kind of guys who believe in living every day to its fullest, and who are willing to quit their job and leave their life behind to do it. You never give the stable guy a chance. The guy who you tend to think is ‘boring’ because he works from 9 to 5 and doesn’t take 3 months to himself to travel around the world. You should give the ‘boring’ guy a chance, one who finds your wanderlust fascinating, someone who’s inspired by it.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

You like the guys who are just as practical as you are. You like the guy who is always on time and likes to eat at restaurants he’s already been to, the kind of guy who knows what he likes and sticks to it. You never give the spontaneous guy a chance, the kind of guy who walks down the street, sees an open mic sign outside a random cafe and asks, ‘Wanna check it out?’ You should give the guy a chance who will make you venture outside of your comfort zone.


(January 21st to February 18th)

You like the ‘deep’ artsy guys. The guys who can have long conversations with you about philosophical topics no one else seems to understand or wants to understand. You never give what you consider the ‘normal’ guy a chance, the guy who went to school for something that isn’t philosophy, or ceramics, the guy who has never read Aristotle or Nietzsche, but enjoys a nice mystery novel. You should give the guy who will surprise you a chance.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You like the guys who romance you, the guys who open your car door, and cook you dinner and serve it by candlelight. You like the guys who perform extravagant romantic gestures that increase your expectations, only to inevitably disappoint you. You never give the practical guy a chance, the guy who might not shower you with roses and chocolates, but the guy who is always there for you when you need him. Roses and chocolates are nice, but love and support is way more satisfying. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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