Selena Gomez Shared Her Best Dating Advice On ‘The Drew Barrymore Show’ And It’s So Real

Any guest sitting with Drew on The Drew Barrymore Show is welcomed into a safe space to share their experiences, thoughts, and feelings. Recently, singer and actor Selena Gomez joined the talk show host and shared her best dating advice. And honestly? It’s so real.

“What would your advice to women be for choosing someone who is a good person?” asked Drew. Selena paused and then discussed how we all go through different phases in our lives, some of which make us feel more insecure than others, but that’s just what makes us human. “So, my advice would be to simply understand what you deserve but also understand that you don’t need to complete someone,” said Gomez. “You want to be fully complete in yourself.”

Gomez then went on to admit if she dated her fiance Benny 10 years ago, their relationship would not have worked because she hadn’t done the inner work yet. But after re-teaching herself behavior patterns, when Benny did finally walk into Selena’s life, she fell “head over heels.”

Benny and Selena’s relationship is a true testament to the power of timing and knowing yourself first.

Watch the full interview clip here: