How To Win Your Heart, According To Your Zodiac Sign


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

Cancers need to feel loved, so be gentle with their hearts from the start. Demonstrate that you care with actions and words. Never let a moment pass during which a Cancer is left to wonder where things are, or how you feel about them. They don’t respond well to guessing games, or to games in general. So stay away, players!


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

The passionate Scorpio craves romance with a heavy helping of sensuality. Woo them by channeling you inner Romeo and appealing to their desire for physical affection. Plan an evening out that’s romantic from the minute you pick them up until the second you lie beside them in bed. Don’t hold back. Prove that you want to be with them—and that you want their body, too.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You absolutely have to figure out how to connect to a Picses if you want a shot at dating one. Loyal to their core, the typical Pisces is a generous soul, but he or she needs to feel as if their desires are reciprocated. Take your time and let things unfold gradually, trusting that you will be rewarded for your patience with fierce loyalty.


(March 21st to April 19th)

When it comes to winning over an Aries, you better tap into your flirtatious side. If an Aries is into you, they will probably shower you with heartfelt affection, so be prepared to do the same. Don’t shy away from expressing just how hard you’re falling as you go. Trust that they’ll want to know. Highly energetic by nature, they also welcome adventures, so consider going beyond the regular dinner-and-a-movie when planning dates.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

If you want to win a Leo’s heart, set the stage for a lot of fun. Unleash your inner child and let yourself get crazy weird when you’re together. They’ll appreciate it, no doubt. Leos are passionate about almost everything in life, so it’s a safe assumption that they’ll be as awesomely nuts in the bedroom as they are everywhere else. Since they’re exceptionally independent, don’t be turned off by their desire to maintain a life apart from your relationship as things transpire.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

If you want to land a Sagittarius, change things up regularly. Take them away for a last minute trip, or surprise them with a small but thoughtful gift. Always keep them wondering what will happen next because they thirst for diversity in life. You might also arm yourself with some hilarious jokes since they’re extremely responsive to humor and playfulness.


(April 20th to May 21st)

If a Taurus is the object of your affection, prepare to get touch-feely because physicality is important to these sensual creatures. Leisure is also critical to their general wellbeing, so consider orchestrating a spa day or urge them to come over for a lazy day of TV watching and eating takeout on the couch. Don’t mistake their desire for relaxation as laziness or dimwittedness, though. They prize intellectual sharpness, too.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

The methodical Virgo covets a sense of order. So whatever you do, don’t cancel at the last minute. Although they aren’t the type to pour their hearts out in words or to respond well to lengthy, corny verbal proclamations, they will definitely show you that they care in bed. Look out for those telltale cues that they’re falling for you and make sure you’re sending crystal clear signs from your end too.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

It’s touch to lock down a Capricorn, but once you do they’ll stay committed to you for life. Capricorns value actions over words, and they’re quite serious by nature. So take every aspect of your relationship seriously from the get to, and show them that you’re in it for the long haul. They might want to take things slowly because they’re so thorough, but they’re pretty much always worth the wait.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

Geminis are fiery, so be the romantic blaze they need you to be. Bring your A-game every single time you meet up if you want to impress them and fit into their exhilarating day-to-day existence. Chances are, they’ve dated a lot of other people, so if you want to stand out you’ll have to appeal to their intellect and their inquisitive nature on top of it. Ask questions, and answer each and every single one they pose as honestly as possible in return. Communicating consistently with a Gemini is key. As thrill-hungry as they are, once they agree to exclusivity, you can count on them to be faithful.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

If you want to be with a Libra, you absolutely must respect their desire for long-term harmony. Loneliness is anathema to this sign, and they tend to spend years deliberately searching for the exact right partner. Provide them with the safe environment they long for. Be the rock they can lean on throughout good times and bad. Help them achieve and maintain a sense of balance in all aspects of life.


(January 21st to February 18th)

Aquarians are aroused by intellectual stimulation above all, so don’t bother trying to court one unless you can meet them at their brainy level. To attract a dynamic Aquarius, employ wit and creativity. They value openness, imagination, and communication, so channel your most smarty-pants self in every interaction. An Aquarius will only ever fall for someone they consider an equal, so don’t expect them to act jealous or possessive, or to tolerate such behavior from a significant other. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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