Here’s What She’s Really Looking For In A Relationship, Based On Her Pisces Sign

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Someone who will really listen.

She’s emotional. She loves to talk through the thoughts buzzing through her mind and takes time to process what she’s thinking. She’s a water sign – filled with complex and deep emotion – so what matters the most to her is finding someone she can talk to, someone she can be open with. She’s emphatic, so a good listener by nature, but she needs this in return. She needs to know that her significant other is listening, really listening. And then she can feel comfortable pouring her heart out and being her true self.

Someone who thinks beyond the literal.

She’s artistic. She thinks in different ways; she thinks too much sometimes. She needs someone who will understand, or try to understand the inner-workings of her crazy mind. Sure, she wants a partner who has a bit of logic, but ultimately wants someone who can see beyond a black and white world. Someone who has faith in the unknown. Someone who believes in, and follows his/her dreams.

Someone who’s not afraid to show emotion.

She feels everything deeply. And she craves, more than anything in the world, a partner who is comfortable in his/her own skin. She needs someone who won’t be hesitant in saying what’s on his/her mind, a partner who will talk, tell her how he/she feels, and show those emotions rather than hiding. She loves affection, loves love, and loves to see her partner’s love, most of all.

Someone who is passionate.

Everything she does, she does with passion. And she needs this in a partner. She needs someone who is inspired by the world, who is crazy about what he/she loves, who is crazy about her. She needs to see passion. She needs to see drive. She needs to see love, and not lukewarm love. Real, crazy, emotional love.

Someone who will give her space.

A Pisces woman values her alone time. She needs to spend time by herself to recharge, to be creative, to find herself again. She needs a partner who is not only comfortable and secure with this, but someone who is comfortable being on his/her own sometimes too. Someone who isn’t too clingy, but isn’t indifferent.

Someone who can be selfless.

It’s in her nature to be giving, to care, to put others first, to nurture people, especially her lover. When you fall in love with a Pisces woman, be prepared to be showered with gifts and emotion—she puts everything she has into the people and things she loves. And she needs this in return – not necessarily the gifts or the ‘everything,’ but someone who can put her first sometimes. Someone who will value what she does and love her in the same, selfless way.

Someone who is gentle.

She is sensitive. Very sensitive. She takes things to heart and feels her emotions, especially painful ones, deeper than most. What she really needs is a partner who understands and respects this. Someone who won’t tease her for being ‘too emotional’ or ‘babyish.’ Someone who will be understanding and patient; someone who will comfort her and be gentle with her sensitive side.

Someone who is stubborn.

She might need you to be gentle, but she also needs you to be tough. She needs a leader. She needs someone who won’t fold at the first sign of a fight, but someone who will stand up for his/her thoughts and perspectives and be comfortable enough in his/her stubbornness to fight back. Because of her emotional side, she can be sassy in arguments. Though she needs someone who is gentle, she also needs a person who can stand up to her and not be wishy-washy about his/her beliefs and ideas.

Someone who will challenge her.

She’s constantly moving, constantly creating, constantly thinking. And what she needs is a partner who can challenge her. Someone who can motivate her when she’s lazy or inspire her when she’s down. Someone who can calm the chaos in her mind, but also spark chaos with a good idea or provoking thought. She’s a fish – always swimming. She needs someone who can keep up with, and fuel that energy.

Someone who believes in, and fights for love.

She’s a lover. She needs someone filled with compassion, someone who believes in love and works for it, even on the hard days. Because of her emotional nature, she will have a hard time giving up on love, so she needs someone in the same boat. Someone who won’t just walk away when the going gets tough, but someone who will stand beside her, fighting for love and one another. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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Marisa Donnelly

Marisa is a writer, poet, & editor. She is the author of Somewhere On A Highway, a poetry collection on self-discovery, growth, love, loss and the challenges of becoming.

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