Why It’s Impossible To Get Over You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Aries

(March 21st to April 19th)

You brought them out of their comfort zone, and being with you made them feel like they were finally living a life that was exciting, thrilling, and unpredictable. You always challenged them to try new things and go after stuff they would never normally go after, and they miss that constant encouragement in their life.

Taurus

(April 20th to May 21st)

You were always such a solid presence of steadiness and trust in their lives. When they were going through a hard time, you were always there to comfort them and be a sounding board for them. You have a really calming and reassuring effect on others, and they miss feeling like everything was going to be okay as long as they had you.

Gemini

(May 22nd to June 21st)

You were always so unpredictable (usually in a good way). No one could ever get bored around you because you had such an exciting and lively way about you. They miss how smooth and easy you made every situation feel, and how when they went anywhere with you, they knew it would be a good time.

Cancer

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You were always so easy to talk to – much of the time, they didn’t even have to say anything, because you were so good at reading them and so intuitive that you just always knew when something was wrong, and why. They miss you for how effortlessly comforting you were and how you could make them feel better about basically any problem or worry that they had.

Leo

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You were always so consistent – in your self-esteem, in your enthusiasm, and in the way you made them feel excited about life. They miss your incredibly thoughtful gifts and the way that you made every date, hang out, or quality time feel so unique and special.

Virgo

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You made them feel like they were doing something right. Because you were always so focused, disciplined, and put-together, those qualities began to rub off on them too, and being with you made them feel like they were finally doing things that mattered and chasing dreams that they were initially too lazy to go after.

Libra

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You found so much delight in the little things. You always brought such enjoyment into the things you did together, whether it was a fully-planned night on the town or a relaxing evening at home. They really miss how comfortable you made them feel in social settings and how you made everything a hundred times more fun just from being who you are.

Scorpio

(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You never stopped being fascinating. Every day that the two of you were together, they felt like they were always discovering something new and interesting about you. You had a curiosity about life that was contagious, and they miss how alive they felt with you.

Sagittarius

(November 23rd to December 21st)

You made them feel so accepted and loved for exactly who they are. You have such a gift for finding the good in anything or anyone, including them. They miss being around you because of the hopeful and optimistic way you looked at the world, and they miss being around someone who constantly lifted their spirits, no matter what kind of mood they were in.

Capricorn

(December 22nd to January 20th)

They felt like they were the best version of themselves around you. You had such ambition and such drive that they couldn’t help but feel inspired by you. They miss having a person in their life who was going places, and someone who challenged them to be better every day, while always maintaining a (unique) sense of humor.

Aquarius

(January 21st to February 18th)

You never have a dull or uninteresting conversation with anyone. Your fascination with the world and your thirst for knowledge were some of their favorite things about you, and they really miss having a person with whom they could learn and share interesting ideas, and who truly showed them that the world was so much bigger than themselves and their little bubble.

Pisces

(February 19th to March 20th)

You have a way of making people look internally at themselves and consciously make an effort to better understand who they are. You never made them feel pressured, but you always made them want to further understand themselves, because you seemed to have such a strong grip on your own identity. They miss your compassion and your endless introspection. TC mark

Kim Quindlen

I'm a staff writer for Thought Catalog. I like comedy and improv. I live in Chicago. My Uber rating is just okay.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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