The Real Reason He’s ‘Just Not That Into You,’ Based On His Zodiac Sign



(March 21st to April 19th)

He loves the thrill of a new chase, but the second it becomes clear that he’s “caught” you, he’ll run as fast as possible in the other direction. He needs constant change and stimulation, and he has the relationship attention span of a goldfish.


(April 20th to May 21st)

He wants a relationship that feels secure while also not wanting to commit too fast. He wants to avoid the “what are we?” bomb, but he also doesn’t want you talking to anyone else – which will ultimately lead to him getting self-righteous and impulsively calling things off when you do keep your options open.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

On the outside he comes off as light, easygoing, and fun. But there’s also a side to him that is anxious and consistently uncertain. Initially you two will have a blast together, but he’ll cut things off the moment he feels that you’re seeing the part of him that exists beneath the surface level.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

He can be extremely sweet and open with you, but the minute you don’t tell him exactly what he wants (and needs) to hear from you, he’s out.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

Sometimes he is extremely warm and fascinating to be around, but he also likes to have things a certain way and can be incredibly condescending. So if you disagree with him on something or remind him that you are not dependent on him, he’ll panic and run the other way.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

He is a chronic overthinker, and is not exactly comfortable with change. You’ll be the breath of fresh air that he needs but convinces himself that he can’t handle.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

He loves to feel connected and in sync with whomever he’s dating, but at the slightest hint of an argument or of trouble and paradise, he’s ending things so that he can be the one to walk away (in his mind) unscathed.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

He falls for people hard and fast, but his passion has an ugly side to it. He’ll sense when you’re pulling back (or he’ll make it up in his head), and will call things off if you’re not professing your love for him from every mountaintop.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

He’s capable of having as much fun as possible and completely incapable of ever having an emotional, serious conversation. If you try to talk to him about anything that’s not light or carefree, he’s already writing the breakup speech in his head. Or he’ll just straight up ghost you.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

He’s extremely logical and disciplined, and has no idea what to do with happiness. He’ll probably end it with you by convincing himself that you’re a distraction from his work or a hindrance to his typical routine.


(January 21st to February 18th)

He’s extremely independent and values his freedom more than anything. So if he feels like he’s getting too close or dependent on you, he’ll slowly but surely start to detach himself from whatever it is that the two of you have going on.


(February 19th to March 20th)

He’s got a lot of big dreams and a lot of ideas of what he wants his life to look like, but he doesn’t know how to implement any of them. He’ll end things between you two when the newness of your relationship wears off and he’s onto his next fascination. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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