31. They don’t give you little signs of physical affection now and again.
32. They act like your pal more than your lover (not always a bad thing as long as the latter isn’t obsolete).
33. Conversations take work.
34. You can see in their eyes that they aren’t innately crazy about you.
35. They aren’t faithful.
36. They are more interested in the possibilities than the realities.
37. They are disrespectful toward your family or friends.
38. They make fun of things that are very important to you.
39. They make fun of you, and not in the playful flirtatious way.
40. They don’t commit.