Why You Should Date The Assertive Girl


Our generation of relationships is all about avoiding commitment and being in control. We’re taught that playing “hard to get” is the most effective way to keep somebody interested. We have perfected the mind games, even when they are not necessary. It was us who created the dreaded “almost relationship”.

However, there is a special kind of female. She’s the one that won’t fill your mind with questions and uncertainty. She is the assertive girl.

She knows what she wants in her relationship.

You will never have to wonder what she is thinking. The assertive girl will tell you exactly where you stand and why. If she is interested in a future with you, she will be the first to tell you. If she doesn’t like something, trust me, you will know. We will tell you what we expect from you and and we want to know what it is that you expect from us.

Time is limited and we are not going to waste it being unhappy or putting up with anything less than what we want.

She is driven. Her future is what she makes of it and she knows this. An assertive girl sees her goals and goes full force toward achieving them. She doesn’t question your actions because she is too busy making things happen on her own. Most would describe her as an attentive and vibrant person which will in return motivate you to keep up. You should always be with somebody who makes you strive to better yourself.

She doesn’t need you.

Her life is just that, her life. She has always been the person she relies on the most. She is strong, realistic and pays her own bills. With or without you, she is a fully functioning adult. She will have had a full support system before you ever walked into the picture and she will continue to have it if you were to leave.

She has her own social circle and will always encourage you to have your own as well. If she makes the effort to have you around, it is because you truly enrich her life and she wants you there, not because she can’t live without you.

She knows her self-worth.

Everybody loves being appreciated and assertive girl are no different. However, we know our worth and we don’t rely on other people to tell us. The only opinion of us that matters is our own. We are confident and happy and will never settle to be anything other than that. The assertive girl knows her strengths and weaknesses and is always trying to improve herself. She will never change who she is to make another person happy.

She will help you grow as a person.

Dating the assertive girl will not always be easy but it will always be worth it. You both will test your limits and find yourself outside of your comfort zone. This will make you both grow as people and as a couple. You will discover things about yourself that you never knew before.

She will support you in you decisions and always be your biggest fan. She will make you happier than you have ever been. If you are looking for a life partner and someone who will give you their all, date the assertive girl. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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