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These Are The Things Guys Wish Girls Knew When It Comes To Dating

“Be yourself. You don’t have to try to be like someone else. We like you for being authentic.”

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1. “Full body pics on Tinder. Show your figure.” – Angel, 26

2. “That we are pretty much the same. That we are humans too.” – Daniel, 33

3. “That you actually need to show up. *sob*” – Alex, 26

4. “Flesh is flesh, love is love but I guess it applies to either human being.” – Adam, 29

5. “That maybe we want the same thing: long term, casual, something in between. Don’t be scared that we want the opposite.” – Keith, 27

6. “To give us a chance, because we are not all the same. Perception can be misleading. Would be nice if pre-judgement based on looks can be discarded, they would have a lot to win from that.  If there is something that you like, or bothers you, just say it, it is that simple. Don’t make us guess.” – Andrew, 28

7. “We’re not all the same.” – Robert, 35

8. “We rarely interpret the indicators of interest quickly, and correctly, and even if we have, not all of us act on it just as quickly.” – Akshay, 23

9. “Forget about your self proclaimed righteous thoughts. As in, allow to conversations to follow its natural course. Don’t dance cha cha on a soul rhythm.” – Albert, 27

10. “Don’t judge everyone by appearance.” – Martin, 25

11. “Be yourself. You don’t have to try to be like someone else. We like you for being authentic.” – Sean, 31

12. “We are equal, and it’s nice to feel liked and courted, not only play the hunter. We also have our insecurities and that leads to playing macho and other false parade.” – Hart, 28

13. “Our standards are not physical, we enjoy having a connection with another human being that also happens to look pretty and smell like flowers.” – Andrei, 30

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Ioana Cristina Casapu is a book author, photographer and producer living life in transit.

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