10 ISFPs Explain Exactly How To Win Over Their Type
"Be observant of my thoughts, feelings and actions. What I don't say is much louder than what I do say."
By 
Heidi Priebe
1. “Be silly and lighthearted! We have a really playful side to us that not everybody can bring out in us.””
2. “I love receiving jewelry! It doesn’t even have to be expensive, just something that I can wear that makes me think of you.”
3. “I really need someone who gives me affection and quality time. I go out of my way to be very loving and affectionate to my partner to make him feel special and appreciated, so if he will treat me that way without me asking, it really goes a long way. Also humour and being able to laugh at yourself goes a long way!”
4. “Be friendly! And try to talk about something interesting because I know I love to hear stories. Especially if I’m just getting to know someone.”
5. “Be honest – if I catch you lying to me, we’re done forever. Also be positive and live in the present.”
6. “Don’t judge me or the people I love. I’m actually really weird when you get to know me and it’s important to me that you like that and aren’t thinking less of me for it.”
7. “Be observant of my thoughts, feelings and actions. Do your best to really try and understand. What I don’t say is much louder than what I do say.”
8. “Take me seriously, listen, and be persistent!”
9. “Be yourself. Have respect for all living creatures. Being intelligent is cool. Laugh, joke around, don’t be afraid of making a fool out of yourself. Don’t be shallow. Give me space if i need some. Be spontaneous at least every once in a while. Negativity sucks. Be straightforward about your motives and needs. Spend time and do different activities (concerts, shopping, movies, traveling) with me. Send me funny videos and memes. Pay attention to the details i tell about myself. Don’t ignore my feelings and emotions. Never break your promises.”
10. “Just be an awesome/interesting person and give us lots of attention! Be goofy and considerate and patient and funny and sweet. And then let us come to you.” 
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