24 People Share The One Thing They Wish The ESFPs In Their Lives Understood

1. “You are a free spirit and people are drawn to you. Keep it up.” –INTJ

2. “Don’t be afraid to be yourself! it can be hard, i know, but embracing your type is honestly the best thing to do for yourself.” –ESFP

3. “If you think you’re talking too much, you probably are. DONT GET ME WRONG – ESFPs are happy makers and our lives wouldn’t be the same without you, but let others share and talk sometimes. Give them the spotlight too.” –ENFJ

4. “It is not that we dislike you… We just cannot comprehend wanting to be friends with everyone in the world.” –INTJ

5. “You’re great, but sometimes you exhaust even me.” –ESTP

6. “You simultaneously tantalize and completely overwhelm me. You are like a pschadelic love hurricane.” –INFP

7. “It’s OK to show others how vulnerable you are. No need to show your smiley face all year round.” –ESFP

8. “Please try to remember that you’re not the center of the universe.” –ENFP

9. “Just because I’m not speaking doesn’t mean I hate you.” –INTJ

10. “Even though your idea of decorating often consists of your favorite Brandy bottles, you’re very easy to talk to. I think a lot if people misunderstand you and think you’re hyperactive just based off MBTI profile descriptions, but honestly, y’all are so easygoing and happy-go-lucky. I really appreciate that, and you’re all so smart. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.” –ESTP

11. “You can be a little superficial sometimes, maybe try to keep that in check?” –INTP

12. “Thank you for being the life of the party so we can take a break.” –INFP

13. “I love your ability to vibe with whatever I’m doing and feeling, but you don’t have to be a chameleon. You don’t have to be happy, or sad, or angry just because I am.” –INFP

14. “When someone says they don’t like something you do, it doesn’t mean we don’t still love and admire you.” –ENFP

15. “You’re amazing… but maybe calm down a little bit every once in awhile.” –ENFP

16. “I wish you would take care of your responsibilities. No matter how fun and endearing you are, at the end of the day I don’t always trust you to come through when it counts.” –ENFJ

17. “Structure can be a very useful thing.” –ISFJ

18. “You make life fun. Maybe a little too unpredictable if you’ll actually show up or not, but when you do, it’s fun.” –INFP

19. “Thank you for bringing so much vibrancy and color into the world. You truly make life interesting and don’t be discouraged by people who don’t understand your energy and zest for life.” –ENFP

20. “Let’s go on wild unicorn adventures together!!! Just please stop flaking out on me.” –ENFP

21. “Other people like the spotlight too – just so you know.” –ENTJ

22. “Everyone is not as nice and great as you think they are. Some people do not deserve your time and attention. Taking things at face value so often can set yourself up for hurt, especially by manipulative people. People that aren’t used to such friendly people will think you are hitting on them. Maybe you are, but I feel like ESFPs need to be careful about people accidentally falling in love with them more than any other type.” –INTJ

23. “I adore you and think that you are very good for me. Though I wish you would include me in more of your activities – you tend to forget about people sometimes, and leave them behind.” –ISFJ

24. “Your freedom of spirit is inspiring.” –ENFP