Why Your Bare-Faced Selfies Aren’t Really Helping Anyone

Over the past few weeks, social media outlets have exploded with photos of makeup-free women claiming they are ‘going bare for a good cause.’ Most of these photos accompany the hashtag #nomakeupselfie and a nomination for a few of their friends to expose their natural faces as well. Some women mention that they’re doing it to raise money for cancer research. Other posts mention nothing of the sort. In any case, each photo tends to be met with an overwhelming number of likes, and comments that equate the display of one’s bare face to an act of insurmountable bravery. Yikes.

So how did this all start?

It is presumed that the campaign was spurred when, following controversy over Kim Novak’s appearance at the Oscars, a novelist and fan of the actress and ex-cancer patient posted a photograph of herself bare-faced on Twitter. Thousands of fans began posting pictures of themselves barefaced in support, asking their friends to donate to cancer research via a provided link or by sending a text message. The campaign was undoubtedly successful at first – by capitalizing on the vanity of young women, it was able to raise over $3 million for cancer research. Until cancer research quietly stepped out of the picture.

Somewhere along the line, women stopped posting links to cancer research websites while hashtagging their selfies. Bare-faced pictures went viral, with captions such as “For a good cause!” and “Showing my support.” Comments, on the other hand, moved away from “I just donated $20 to support cancer research” and turned into “Girl, you’re soooo pretty!” Arguably, the cause morphed from cancer support to support of women’s vanity.

So what’s the problem?

Before we launch into a discussion of how this is encouraging a realistic standard of beauty for women, let us consider this: is any standard of beauty one we should be encouraging?

I am by no means against wearing makeup, nor am I against going without it. How anyone chooses to decorate their face is their prerogative. If it makes you feel fabulous to do something artistic with your eyelids, more power to you. If it makes you feel anxious to apply lip liner, by all means, go nude. But when we’ve reached the point where bearing one’s natural face is considered shocking, it’s an indication that our standards have gotten out of hand. These women are showing their lips tinted slightly less pink, not dismantling a nuclear bomb.

This campaign is meant to empower women to make a change for cancer patients. And yet the only way we can think to go about it is by marketing our appearance-based insecurities? Have we not gotten further than this? The face that posting a pouty-faced selfie is the most valuable contribution most women consider themselves able to make is a troubling notion to me.

Here are a few more effective examples of how women could contribute to cancer research: post a picture of yourself at a local relay for life event. Volunteer your time at a hospital. Actually go ahead and donate to the cause. In my perhaps naïve opinion, seeing these images would be considerably more inspirational in the fight against cancer than seeing a picture of my next-door neighbor with a pimple.

But the selfies raise awareness, right?

Sure. For a while they did. And cancer awareness is by no means a negative trend for social media to pick up on. But the problem with social media crazes is that they tend to throw the baby out with the bathwater. What was once an effort to raise funds for people in need has turned into a self-absorbed aggravation of physical appearance ideals for women. When you received your nomination and posted your selfie online, did you research what it was you were supporting? Did you look into how you were actually contributing to cancer research? Or did you simply pull out your best pouty-face and choose the most flattering of several angled shots?

Perhaps the sharing of bare-faced photos is annoying at worst. But it is becoming scary how readily we latch onto social media trends without questioning their origins. My plea to you, bare-faced women of the internet, is to start doing your homework. Before declaring your solidarity with a hashtag, take a few moments to analyze what sort of support you are actually giving. Is it a cause you believe in? Is it a problem you are actually doing something about?

Instead of blindly following trends on social media, let’s start taking them to the next level. Does it seem like posting a picture of your bare face is going to benefit cancer research? If not, what might? The answer to that question’s up to you. And if you cannot find the answer, this page might be a good place to start. TC mark

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This is me letting you go

If there’s one thing we all need to stop doing, it’s waiting around for someone else to show up and change our lives. Just be the person you’ve been waiting for.

At the end of the day, you have two choices in love – one is to accept someone just as they are and the other is to walk away.

We owe it to ourselves to live the greatest life that we’re capable of living, even if that means that we have to be alone for a very long time.

“Everyone could use a book like this at some point in their life.” – Heather

Let go now

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  • http://lisasherin.wordpress.com Lisa Sherin

    I agree with a lot of the points you have made here but I think it’s very important to consider the where you’re from because it seems to vary country to country. I have already talked to a woman from South Africa who explained that the #nomakeup selfies posted no longer had any affiliation with a charitable cause.

    My experience however, has been quiet the opposite. In Ireland people are posting lighthearted selfies, making fun of the vanity of the trend while still donating to the cause. I have male friends wearing a full face of makeup and girls pulling unattractive faces alongside a snapshot of their donation. We’ve raised €1 million so far and perhaps many of those are donating for the first time in their lives.

    So I’m happy to see a charitable cause taking advantage of our social media, because at the end of the day, it will do some good for someone.

    On your point about supporting “natural beauty” that’s a problem with the individuals, not the trend.

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    Reblogged this on ShoutingToTheStorm and commented:
    Finally, I learn how this started! I too had no idea what started the trend, and I’m glad that it actually started with something worthwhile. It’s ridiculous how much it strayed off that track though.

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    “Slacktivism” has been a pet peeve of mine for a while. Social media can be a wonderful tool to raise awareness and gain support for various causes (what am I doing with my blog, after all?). However, when “supporting a cause” becomes as easy as clicking the “share” button, it’s easy to do that and nothing more, sometimes without even really reading or understanding what you just shared. It becomes tempting to stay off of social media for a day, change your profile picture, or upload a no makeup selfie (to which I say so what by the way) and then do nothing more. Instead, I challenge you to do something real for the cause you are “supporting.” Most of them are incredibly important causes that deserve so much more than a share or a like. Get up and DO something to make a real difference. Put together a fundraiser, join an existing fundraiser, or even just educate yourself about the cause. Don’t let yourself be limited to the the slacktivism trap of the share button.

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    I thought this was an interesting take on the no-makeup selfie rage…

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