You are the sensitive and forgiving girlfriend. You believe in new beginnings, starting over, and the beauty of being able to reinvent yourself and situations. You wear your heart on your sleeve, unquestionably trust people, and always are able to look for (and find) the good in them. Bad days that are more grey and stormy do not scare you because you know that they are simply a part of any relationship, and that what you will learn after the fact is so, so valuable. You are the kind of girlfriend who believes in her partner, who stands by them. You can always find the reason to look for love in someone, and that’s what you choose to do.
You are optimistic, warm, inviting, and a ray of sunshine in your relationships. Your partner loves how happy you are, and how much of a light you are in their life. They admire and adore how you always look for the good, how glass half full your personality is. They are immensely attracted to your smile, and your light-up-the-room persona. You make them believe in possibility, and that’s something to hold on to.
You are the partner in crime and adventurous girlfriend. Your favorite things are late nights, spontaneous road trips, and the times when you and your partner and so taken with each other that everything else literally melts away. Your “happily ever after” looks something like being completely swept up and away by another person. So when you find them? You become their ride or die. You are by your person’s side no matter how crazy their plans seems, no matter how unrealistic their dreams are. You’re just there. You love someone’s everything. Their security, their good, but even their messier parts. The parts of them that are maybe more unexpected. In fact, sometimes, those are the things you love most about them.
You are unshakeable, bold, confident, and unafraid in your relationships. Your partner may be intimidated by you from time to time, but they love the side of them that comes out because of you. You are definitely the girlfriend who instead of saying, “Why?” instead says, “Why not?” And that is completely infectious and intoxicating to be around.
You are the nurturing and comforting girlfriend. You are like all of the Fall essentials rolled up into one human being. You are apple pie, warm blankets, fire-pits, and fresh coffee in human form. When someone needs an ear to hear them or a shoulder to lean on? You’re right there and ready. You are the quintessential person that everyone needs in their lives to make them feel better and warm and safe. There is something about you that is so incredibly inviting — people are simply drawn to you no matter where you find yourself.
You are absolutely the kind of lover and significant other that is impossible to forget, and really engrains themselves into their partner. People love how much you care about them, and how unafraid you are of being the person who shows how much they love. You do not run away from your feelings, you instead present them on a silver platter. (So to speak.) Your partner loves how honest and accepting you are, and how much they can rely on you. That safety and security is immeasurably important, and something that no one takes for granted.
You are the mysterious and badass girlfriend. You are semi-difficult to read and tend to be a little bit more of a “chase” when it comes to pursuing you. You are definitely not one of those girlfriends who just “falls for anyone.” You are more reserved, selective, and secretive with the people who you choose to let into your inner circle. Some would call it “high standards” but you prefer to call yourself patient. You’re just willing to wait for someone who actually makes opening up worthwhile.
Being with you is unlike anything else that your partner has experienced. You are challenging, unique, slightly dark, and completely invigorating. You refuse to settle for anything less than you deserve and reserve the spots closest to you to people who you deem actually worthy of your heart. You’re not easily trusting, but once you open up? You show your partner a love deeper than anything they could have imagined. You just want to make sure that whoever you’re with is deserving of you. And there’s nothing wrong with that.