What Each Zodiac Sign Wants To Be Asked On A First Date

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(March 21st to April 19th)
“What is something that motivated you to get to where you are today? And what is your motivation for the future?”

Ambitious Aries is always down to talk about the project they’re excited about. They thrive off of success and their accomplishments, and nothing makes them happier than feeling like a winner. Asking them about the things that inspire them to be said winner? They’ll light up and be so excited to tell you.


(April 20th to May 21st)
“Who is your absolute favorite person and why?”

Taurians are inherently sentimental and sweet. They love ‘love’ and get attached to people, places, and things incredibly easy. They are also incredibly protective of the people they care about, which is why those individuals become such a big part of their life and they’d love to talk about them for hours.


(May 22nd to June 21st)
“Tell me about the most fun you ever had as a kid when you were growing up.”

Playful, flirtatious, and always up for a fun adventure, Geminis are excited by the very possibility of being excited. And getting to retell said stories of fun times in the most animated, Gemini way? Even better.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)
“If you could hang out with anyone for an entire day, who would it be and why?”

Cancers are all about good vibes, good times, and good feelings. A Cancer is incredibly imaginative, and sometimes hard to get to know. So asking them about who/what inspires them and makes them inherently happy is a great way to break down their walls, and actually spark a meaningful conversation.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)
“How do you think your best friend would describe you?”

Highly emotional and creative, a Leo’s friend probably knows them better than they even know themselves. Asking them to think outside of themselves and into the mind of someone else will likely generate a more honest, and ultimately deeper answer. Plus, they’ll have fun being emotionally challenged with a question like that.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)
“What is the accomplishment you are most proud of?”

Virgos absolutely thrive when they feel like they’re being successful. They love moving up in the world and feeling like they’re crossing off another thing in the list of what they want to do with their life. Asking them about one of those things, one of those times, will put a smile on their face and keep one of the signs that’s typically more inclined to listen talking for hours.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)
“What was the last book you read that really made an impact on you?”

Libras are incredibly inspired by art, and the world around them. They’re also a highly intellectual sign, and always are striving to be emotionally and mentally challenged. Combining their thirst for knowledge and their love of all things creative will always excite them.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)
“Who do you think is funnier, you or me?”

A Scorpio is all about teasing, flirting, and a challenge. Being a simple, easy date for a Scorpio is not a good thing – it’s a turn off. Challenge them, tease them back. They’ll love it and be more into you because of it.


(November 23rd to December 21st)
“Tell me about the most incredible journey you’ve ever gone on.”

Sagittarians have a natural instinct towards chasing new things, new adventures. Because of this, they’ve likely racked up a fair amount of stories revolving around said adventures. And they are just itching for the opportunity to share them. So give it to them! They’ll be forever grateful (and forever into you.)


(December 22nd to January 20th)
“What’s most ridiculous excuse you’ve made for canceling on a date?”

Capricorns are pretty judgmental, often difficult to get to know, and dislike most things at one point or another. Because of this, they’ve probably been a bad date or canceled a date last minute MORE than once. Make them laugh at themselves, make them in on the joke. It will loosen them up and make the date unlike any other they’ve ever had before.


(January 21st to February 18th)
“What do you want to ask me?”

Aquarians will naturally deflect on a first date, or when initially getting to know someone. They’re slightly apprehensive, but absolutely amazing listeners. Providing them with the chance to ask something that they’re actually dying to ask and then GET the answer to? They’ll be sold.


(February 19th to March 20th)
“What is currently inspiring to you?”

A Pisces is the artist of the zodiac. They’re constantly creating, constantly working on something, constantly striving to make something new. Asking them about their passions, the things they’re so inspired and motivated by is the quickest way to their heart.Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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