16 Guys Reveal The One Little Thing That Makes Their Girlfriend Stand Out In Any Crowd


“She’s just the kindest person I’ve ever encountered. It’s almost to a fault because sometimes I think people take advantage of how much she genuinely wants to be there for other people. But it’s unlike anything I’ve ever witnessed. She inspires me to be a better person.” — Nick, 25

“Her laugh. Her laugh is honestly one of my favorite sounds in the world. It’s kind of kooky and definitely not a ‘cute’ laugh, but it’s genuine. It’s real. And it’s 100% her.” — Jack, 26

“I am in love with and totally mesmerized by how much she speaks her mind. She knows exactly who she is, what she stands for, what she believes in…and she’s not afraid to be that person. It’s admirable. And so, so, SO attractive.” — Brooks, 28

“She’s so clearly an 11 out of 10. Like, I dig watching her get hit on and knowing I’m the one who is going to leave with her. It’s so fucking hot.” — Kyle, 27

“She’s maybe the best listener I’ve ever met. She’s not one of those people who just nods and says ‘mhm’ and laughs along with whoever is talking. She absolutely absorbs everything; she takes everything in. It’s one of the most attractive qualities I’ve ever seen in another human being.” — Travis, 24

“My girlfriend is a really, really, really good friend. She is the person who you can call at 2 AM and she actually answers and is ready to be there. She treats her friends like they are her flesh and blood. And while, sometimes, I think that can be dangerous for her own sanity, it’s a quality that I look up to.” — Christopher, 22

“She’s not afraid to be alone. I have never felt like she “needed” me in the sense of, “needed me” to be completed. She was and is already a whole person on her own and she OWNS that.” — Logan, 27

“I’ve legit never seen a body like hers in real life before. She looks like she’s photoshopped. I don’t know how I got so lucky.” — Adam, 24

“I’m always amazed and in awe at how willing she is to hear other people out and see their side when there’s conflict. She’s not quick to judge; she’s always ready to find common ground. She’s not a person who goes LOOKING for a fight — just a resolution.” — Sam, 25

“She can and WILL put absolutely anyone in their place. It’s never unwarranted or uncalled for — but it definitely makes you stfu and listen. She’s gonna be a great (and sometimes terrifying) mom.” — Jordan, 29

“She can convey anything with just a look. When she’s pissed off, irritated, bored, thrilled, judgmental. Really anything. I can just look at her eyes, and I know where she’s at. Best is when she’s turned on. It’s super sexy.” — Micah, 23

“When I’m with her I just feel whole. I’m fine on my own — great even! But when I’m with her, even when we’re not ‘together together’ just in the same place, on the same team…I’m THAT much better. I wish there was a better way to describe it but there really isn’t. Losing her would be like losing a limb. I would feel her absence forever.” — Cole, 28

“She is always the center of attention wherever we go. People are just drawn to her. She’s the light in every room, the life of every party. It can be intimidating to keep up with her, but I definitely am into the challenge. She is what makes my life interesting.” — Julien, 24

“I say this will the utmost sincerity: she is too smart. She knows EVERYTHING. I feel like I’m walking around with a human Google. I know when I’m with her I will never be bored because she just…has so much to talk about, to tell me. She is completely fascinating.” — Christian, 23

“She completely oozes sexuality and sensuality. You can tell that at any given moment — she WANTS me. It’s the hottest thing ever and I don’t know how I ended up in my own IRL porno.” — Jessie, 25

“She is the kind of person that makes you want to be better, do better, LIVE better. She genuinely, authentically believes in the good in people and that the world can be a better, kinder, more gentle place to live. I don’t know if she’s necessarily ‘right’ in this mindset/assumption, but it absolutely is an inspirational way to live and look at the world. Being around her is like wearing a permanent pair of rose colored glasses. It’s remarkable.” —Kellen, 26 Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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