10 Reasons Why Dating A Scorpio Will Be the Best Decision You Ever Make

Natalie Allen

1. Their intensity is unmatched.

Scorpios live in extreme highs and extreme lows; there is no in-between. So it should come as no surprise that when a Scorpio falls for someone, they fall HARD.

Scorpios are used to being independent, and they don’t need anybody to help them thrive. But when they want something, they stop at nothing to get it, and when they have something, they hold on to it with all their might, making them a loyal, brave, and trustworthy companion.

2. They are fearless.

Scorpios don’t know the meaning of the word quit. In fact, that word isn’t even in their vocabulary. They are not afraid of failure or heartache, and are used to diving head first into difficult situations.

Scorpios are completely capable of learning how to get themselves out of adversity without any help. When they are in relationships, they enjoy facing difficult times as a pair because they know it makes the couple stronger and closer as a result. They will not back down or run away at the first sign of trouble, no matter how difficult things may seem.

If their loved ones are struggling, they will put themselves straight into the fire, so they do not have to see a loved one suffer, and they will still come out completely revived and ready to face the next battle.

3. They don’t settle for less than they deserve.

Scorpios do not enjoy short term bonds that have no foreseeable future, so dating is not something they take lightly.

Scorpios are very protective of their hearts, and very self-aware. They go through a lot of internal struggles and have become better for it, so they are not about to throw that all away over someone who does not see what they are worth.

If a Scorpio wants to be with you, consider yourself very lucky, because they already have a complete list in their head of all the reasons you make a worthy partner.

4. They are highly intuitive.

Scorpios are highly intuitive, and notice things that other people overlook. This often makes them one step ahead of everyone around them, and therefore, they are always prepared for anything. They have a deep understanding of the world around them, so if you want to discover what is hidden behind any act or situation, a Scorpio is the person to go to.
In relationships, Scorpios make excellent communicators and often know what you are thinking before you even have to say anything. They want you to be as in tune with your emotions are they are, so they enjoy talking things out and comforting you so that afterwards, you both feel a huge weight lifted off your shoulders.

5. They say what they actually mean.

Because Scorpios are intuitive and can see people’s hidden agendas, they often don’t wish to keep any secrets from their partners. Although they are secretive in nature, it is only because they take a while to open up, but once they become open to you, they are the most honest people you will ever meet.

6. They are extremely faithful.

It is hard for a Scorpio to fall in love, but once they do, you have their love forever. They will never want to leave you, and nothing will be tempting enough to make them stray.

Scorpios are used to getting a lot of attention, but since they are very in tune to their surroundings they can tell when someone is being genuine, or just attracted to their mystifying charm. They are only a mystery and closed off at first, which can attract people to them, but they show very little interest in those they do not love. With the people they actually want by their sides, they are open and honest, and would never do anything to jeopardize the relationship.

When a Scorpio promises to stand by your side, they really, really mean it.

7. They put others first.

When Scorpios learn to deal with their highly intense emotions, they become the best healers, lovers, and friends.
They are extremely sensitive, and have a lot of depth to their feelings, so they are no strangers to dealing with other people’s intensity, even if that person doesn’t know how to deal with it themselves.

Scorpios are the first ones to lend a hand when they see someone in need, especially if that someone is in a particularly dark place. Scorpios do not fear the dark, in fact, they often thrive in it. So once a Scorpio has found their own way into the light, they want to enlighten their loved ones as well.

8. They are exceptionally sexual.

Scorpios are extremely sexual individuals, and they conduct themselves sexually with the same intensity as everything else they do. They like to stick to one partner in the bedroom, but once they have someone to explore with they are focused, fearless, and live to please.

They are naturally very sexual people and carry around a very sexual energy with them wherever they go. People will be watching your Scorpio lover from the moment they walk into a room, but never fear, because your Scorpio will always, always come home to you and give you that deep, dark stare that means it is so on.

9. They are passionate.

Scorpios are not only passionate lovers, but they pour their passion into everything they do. When Scorpios follow their talents and true desires, they often excel since they are extremely motivated individuals.

They are easily excited about new things, which makes them curious, confident, and proud personalities. When dating a Scorpio, you should definitely be open to new and exciting things, because they will make you feel motivated just by simply standing next to them.

10. They are protective of their loved ones.

The last thing a Scorpio wants is to lose somebody they love, so if they see that their relationship is being threatened, they go into full on defensive mode. They do not want anything to interfere with their relationship and are very possessive, since they rarely meet people they connect with on an emotional level.

A Scorpio’s possessive nature is not because of insecurity, but rather because they feel as though they are one with the person they love. Once Scorpios feel as though they “click” with another human being, they will become open, protective, and incredibly close.

If you are dating a Scorpio, you will never feel helpless, or feel as though you are unloved. They make sure to always keep your heart safe and keep you close, both mentally and physically. As long as you make them feel secure, they want you to feel the exact same thing, so do not feel threatened by a Scorpio’s intensity. Just embrace the fact that they only want you and nobody else.

Scorpios might be a lot to handle, but all they want is an honest, open, and secure relationship, and that is exactly what should be expected from them in return. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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Brynn Taylor

Brynn is a 20-something-year-old girl who has more experience with love than she bargained for.

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