Here is some advice for the men of the world. I’m sure other women would agree with me.
I like men who approach me with conﬁdence. However, this rarely happens. For some reason I attract men who have no self-conﬁdence that shake at the thought of communicating with a woman. I am not attracted to this.
Please grow some balls and talk to me. If you do that, it automatically gives you some allure. The worst thing I can do is say no and you barely know me, so how is that the end of the world? You are not going to creep me out if introduce yourself and buy me a drink. However, you will creep me out if you do these things:
1. You follow me around the room while staring at me the whole entire time. Every time you awkwardly make eye contact you shyly smile. This makes you seem insanely creepy. If I smile and acknowledge you once, this should give you a signal telling you that it is ok to talk to me. When you don’t say anything and just keep following me around, it’s creepy. Just stop.
2. You get your friend to ask me to talk to you because you are too afraid to approach me yourself. This used to happen to me a lot in middle school. I cannot believe that it still happens sometimes with men almost in their thirties. Didn’t you learn in middle school that you can approach a girl by yourself and be ﬁne?
3. You like everything I post on Facebook and then send me a message telling me that you think I am attractive. Then, when you see me in person you freak out and don’t say hi to me. This just shows you don’t know how to talk to a girl in person. You are the most awkward one of them all.
Unless you are gorgeous or we are already friends, I’m not going to approach you ﬁrst. If you want me to give you the time of day, say something.