Search For The Guy Who Never Leaves

Andrew Welch

Search for the guy who not only promises you the world in the beginning, but also gives it to you every single day while you’re with him. A guy who puts his words into actions, and means everything that he says to you. Because a guy who honors his words is someone you can trust the most, someone you can hand your heart, even when your eyes closed.

Search for a guy who never leaves you for someone else because you are already enough for him. You are the only one he wants to grow old with, and the only one he wants to sacrifice his time, his effort, his energy, his life. You are the person he wants to see first when he wakes up in the morning, and the person he wants to see last before sleep takes away his consciousness.

Search for a guy who’s scared to betray you. A guy who can’t stand seeing you hurt, or even see you cry because of him. He can’t stomach doing something against you behind your back, something that’s going to make you feel like you’re being cheated on, something that’s going to give you paranoia.

Search for a guy who stays, even if he has all the right to leave, even if he has all the opportunity to walk away. Search for a guy who chooses you, and always says it will always be you he’s going to love, he’s going to live for, he’s going to fight for. Because he can’t imagine not spending his whole life without you in it. He can’t give a love that’s deep, and raw, and honest to anyone other than you.

Search for a guy whose goodbye means death to him. A guy who doesn’t want to live far away from you. A guy who just wants to be around you all the time because his days are incomplete if he doesn’t see you, if he doesn’t get to touch your fingers, if he doesn’t know that you’re alive, breathing just fine. A guy who feels lucky to be the one who brightens your day.

And don’t stop searching. Don’t get tired of waiting. Don’t settle for a guy who doesn’t meet your standards. Don’t stop hoping for a love that you know you deserve.

Searching for love is not a game of who finds it first. Searching for the right guy is not a race. You don’t need to hurry. You don’t need to rush. You don’t have to feel like you’re behind just because you haven’t found the man who decides to stay with you.

Keep your eyes open, your heart ready, and your guard down for the guy who’s going to define the true meaning of loyalty to you. Keep believing that in the right place, and in the right time, you’re going to meet the guy you’ve been searching for so long. Keep your trust in fate alive, because one day, it’s going to give you a love story that’s infinite. A love story that’s going to be continuous despite the bumps in your relationship.

Search for the guy who never brings a storm in your life, but instead gives you more sunshine. Search for the guy who never leaves you feeling unsatisfied, never leaves you with a broken heart, never leaves you with unfulfilled promises.

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Angelo Caerlang is the author of Sparks in Broken Lights.

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