I Am So Over Being The ‘Cool Girl’
I let men treat me like their guy friend and not their girlfriend. I never asked for flowers because that’s not what the ‘cool girl’ does.
Ae Padilla
Ae Padilla is a novelist who was born and raised in Brownsville Texas. After graduating from The University of Texas ...
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