Your Most Attractive Quality (According To Personality Experts)

Developmental Psychologist, MBTI personality expert, and best-selling author of This is Me Letting You Go and How You’ll Do Everything Based On Your Personality Type, Heidi Priebe, highlights the most attractive quality of every Myers-Briggs personality type.

ENTP – Your wit

It’s not just the quick, clever jokes (though it’s also those) – everything about the way your mind works is both refreshing and compelling. You establish dominance almost accidentally through your intellectually rebellious nature and it’s insanely attractive.

INTP – Your indifference

I hate to admit it but one of the most attractive qualities someone can exhibit in the 21st century is simply not giving a shit about the dating game. You’d genuinely rather be left alone to your thoughts and to the many emotional masochists out there, you’re the very definition of a challenge.

ENTJ – Your aggression

You don’t mess around when you see something you want. You are assertive, direct and smart about getting what you want and it’s a purely irresistible quality. Your dominant nature is hot. And you make sure that whomever you’re going for knows it.

INTJ – Your intelligence

It’s no secret that you usually have the highest IQ in the room. Everything that comes out of your mouth is an educated, thoroughly analyzed opinion and it’s difficult to champion your knowledge on almost any topic. You know your stuff inside out and backwards – and it’s hot.

ESFJ – Your togetherness

You somehow manage to always be miles ahead of the rest of us when it comes to general adulting. You’ve got your ducks in a row and you’re looking for a partner who can measure up. People are attracted to you when they’re looking for a partner who’s got their shit together and pulls it off with style.

ISFJ – Your composure

You are polished, composed and incredibly humble to boot. You don’t demand attention but you attract it through your put-together attitude. People are attracted to your stability and grace – whether you realize that you possess it or not.

ESFP – Your confidence

You’re sexy and you know it. It’s not just that you have rock-hard abs (though you usually do), the ease with which you attract your gender of choice is apparent in everything you do. You are effortlessly personable and the confidence you have in your own people skills is irresistible.

ISFP – Your sensuality

We’re not sure if it’s your impeccable style, your quiet creativity or your unexpectedly rebellious side but something about you just oozes sexuality. You are mysterious in all the right ways and it makes people want to know you intimately.

ISTJ – Your reliability

You are the definition of the strong, silent type. People are attracted to your no-fuss-no-muss attitude – they want someone they can rely on and you’re the definition of dependable. Plus your dry humor doesn’t hurt.

ESTJ – Your decisiveness

It’s difficult not to respect your frank, assertive nature. You go for your goals with no holds barred and you don’t care who or what tries to stand in your way. Your confidence in what you want makes others want to be the thing that you want.

ISTP – Your aloofness

Your offbeat, somewhat distant attitude is endearing at worst and insanely attractive at best. Despite the fact that you’re somewhat reserved in conversation, it’s obvious that you’re a Jack-of-most trades who can take care of yourself with ease. Your aloof independence is hot.

ESTP – Your nonchalance

You are personable, capable and confident – all seemingly without trying. We don’t know how you pull it off, ESTP, but your cool as a cucumber attitude is alluring and absorbing. Something about you just dares us to put ourselves on your radar.

INFJ – Your intensity

There is nothing meek or helpless about you. You are a highly intelligent, highly perceptive individual who understands others on a deep level. This gives you the unique ability to connect quickly with new people. It’s an intense experience for those on the receiving end of it and it makes everything about you seem hella sexy.

ENFJ – Your attentiveness

You have this very specific ability to look someone in the eye and make them feel as though you’re staring straight into their soul. The presence and introspection that you bring to the table is a rare gem and it’s unnervingly attractive.

INFP – Your depth

There is infinitely more to you than meets the eye and your slightly mysterious vibe is compelling. People who meet you for the first time want to know more about what’s going on inside your mind – and it keeps them coming back for more.

ENFP – Your enthusiasm

You care more about your latest idea than most people care about everything else in their lives combined. And the energy’s contagious. People admire the positive vibes you bring to the table and they want to share in whatever it is that you’re so pumped on – hell, they want to be the next thing you’re excited about.