Trusting God With What You’ll Never Have Answers To

Written by Rebecca Simon, author of Let Go, Trust God, Become Who You Were Meant to Be. This reflection is for anyone wrestling with unanswered questions and unresolved endings.

Closure is a gift not everyone receives.

You loved, and it ended — but the ending wasn’t clear. The silence stretched out. The apology never came. The explanation stayed hidden behind absence, excuses, or blame. And now you find yourself circling the same memories, replaying conversations, searching for meaning. You wonder what shifted, what you missed, what you could have done differently — if only you had the answers.

The truth is, the unanswered can ache more than the ending itself. Questions linger longer than goodbyes. Yet God does not abandon you to someone else’s silence. He steps into the hollow space they left behind and speaks a word stronger than theirs — a word rooted not in confusion, but in His peace.

You don’t need their clarity to heal.

You don’t need their permission to move forward.

Closure doesn’t always arrive through people. Sometimes it is something God grows within you — slowly, tenderly, in the sacred release of the story you’ll never fully understand. It is the choice to believe that healing is still possible, even without the answers you thought you needed.

The silence does not mean you were at fault. It does not mean you were unworthy of love, of truth, or of honesty. It simply means someone could not meet you where you needed to be met. And in that very gap, God, in His mercy, meets you instead.

Let the door stay closed.

Not because the questions don’t matter, but because you matter more.