Maybe your heart has already let them go, maybe it even let them go a long time ago. And what you really need to do, in order to heal yourself, is just to learn how to love your own company again.
That’s the problem, when you think about someone too often. You start to picture them as something that they’re not. They become someone who doesn’t really exist.
“We spend the majority of our lives adopting ourselves to a world where it seems that always somebody else sets the rules. Until one day we wake up and say it is ……(put whatever you want to put there) ENOUGH!”
At the moment, I have too much to figure out for myself. I can’t worry about anyone else.
Bruce: The guy who had a love affair with protein powder.
“You’re not afraid to love. You’re just afraid of not being loved back.”
You are in full control of your actions. It is better to be single than in a relationship in response to the fear of being alone.
I will never forget the time that we woke up next to each other and my sister came in my room after she had gotten ready for the day. Clay looked at me and asked, “Anabel why don’t you look like that when you wake up?”
“I can’t explain you. I can’t hide from you. I can’t forget you. I can’t excuse you. I can’t forgive you. I ache for you, but I don’t miss you. I reach for you, but I know it’s better that you’re out of my grasp. I’ll never have you, but that’s why I’ll never leave you. This is who we are. This is what we do to each other.”
The bible says love is patient, love is kind, but it doesn’t really tell you when’s the right time to let go of the love you’re holding on to.