Ever since I started my first relationship I have heard the same things over and over again. I’ve been peer pressured into almost losing my personality. I’m crazy, yes.
We think if we claim to not care it somehow magically transforms us into these superhuman invincible beings. If you don’t care about something, it will be powerless to hurt you.
I promise, I will try my hardest to be happy, even if that means allowing someone who isn’t you to make me happy.
1. Seek God Any relationship that puts seeking God as a priority will find that it has an endurance and strength that is unmatched.
A lot of the time I end up having really good days. Days where I forget you even exist and that you were even a part of my life.
You are out at a bar. You make a joke about a girl. I want to throw up and I have not been drinking.
We’re so often afraid of actually working on things. We like manuals and guides. We want Google answers that will point us in the correct direction. We read lists. We make lists.
Cultural differences in our modern and globalized world often don’t seem like that big a deal. Until of course they are.
By closing myself off from any possible attachment, I’m making myself incapable of finding love.
Go slow. Even if you like it fast and passionate and breathless and rough, pace yourself, take it as slowly as you can. Every grab and squeeze becomes so much more intense when it’s slow and intentional.