This person showed up and all of the sudden you were smiling when you were grocery shopping or taking out the trash.
Repeat after me: “I love having sex with you.”
“I told him this morning that if he doesn’t stop buying kitchen utensils, I’ll have to stop having sex with him.”
Spending time together usually means you’re both doing something else at the same time, like constantly playing on your phone, working on your laptop, watching tv, or anything else that takes your attention off of each other.
Stage two: Utter denial. At this point you’re starting to get a clue but you just can’t get yourself to admit the gut wrenching truth. Your friends start to give each other the side eye when you tell them how long it’s been since he’s texted you and you’re starting to forget what his face looks like in person.
Between kissing in the rain, which never even happened, to scenes of us embracing each other, speaking of longing and despair comes the reality of the love I had. Or, the love I thought I had. The love I had in my mind; the love that never really existed.
Isn’t it funny how it’s the destructive and even toxic relationships that are the hardest ones to let go of?
When we look back at Cory and Topanga’s relationship, we tend to remember the highlights.
“We were together. I forget the rest.”
While every relationship needs some common ground to stand on, I urge you to abandon your preconceived notions of what your partner should be like and take my advice, date your opposite.