The problem is that we are being conditioned to think that getting married is no longer about searching for the person you want to spend your life with. Instead, it’s about finding the person you want to throw a wedding with.
You want less because you have less.
Everyone’s an adult! Well, not really…
…when I couldn’t come up with a good enough reason for being stressed, my dentist surmised that it “must just be New York” adding that “the city will do that to you.”
Well, there goes your weekend.
A girl in my school was on Super Sweet 16. Someone got paid by a cameraman to knock over the cake.
This was your life. You thought it was what you wanted, until one day it wasn’t.
18. To stop looking for love, because that’s the only way you’ll find it.
Hating yourself is perfectly acceptable in this world. In fact, some would argue that it’s preferable. It sounds harsh, and downright icy, but the proof is all around us. And yet, despite this, standing against the pressure, and loving yourself, is still worth the scars, hate, and judgments that you’ll be subjected to.
There’s a difference between what something is and what we think it is. Rather, there’s a difference between the idea that anything is and the awareness that everything is illusory.