(March 21st to April 19th)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because they had their chance, and they don’t get another one. Your life isn’t a game, there’s no take backs or redos, when you’re done, you’re done, period.
(April 20th to May 21st)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because heartbreak was bad enough the first time, you’d never give them the chance to do it again. You’re guarded because you realize people won’t always give you the love that you deserve, and you can’t do anything about it. Your ex can go break someone else’s heart. You’ll be fine without them.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because you know they haven’t changed one bit. They’re still the same person they were when the relationship ended, and even if they say they’ve changed, you know they haven’t. You won’t let your ex come crawling back because you don’t believe the love they say is there, you only believe the love they show.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because your friends would never let you. They’d give you unsolicited advice on why your ex isn’t right for you, and you’d never hear the end of it. You really don’t feel like listening to your friends telling you everything you already know about your last failed relationship.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because if they couldn’t love you right the first time around, they don’t deserve your love anyway. You’re too good for that. You don’t want to be with someone who takes your love for granted, you want to be with someone who makes you feel appreciated, and your ex is not that person.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because you can’t stop thinking about the mistakes that were made when the two of you were still together. You’re slow to forgive and you’re unable to forget. You think about everything that went wrong more than you think about everything they did right, and you’re not ready to start loving someone whose mistakes overshadow the happiness they brought into your life.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because you want to try and accept a love that you deserve. You don’t want to just be with someone because you have no one else to be with. You’re starting to realize that your loneliness is not a good enough reason to give your ex another chance.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because when a relationship ends for you, that’s it. You don’t break promises, or lie, or say things you don’t mean, and if you decide to close the door on someone you’ve been dating, you’re going to lock it shut and never open it again. You don’t like open endings, or breakups without closure. When it’s over, it’s OVER.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because you want to explore your options, not just in love, but life in general. You want to try furthering your career, or you want to quit your job altogether, whatever it is that you have your mind set on, your ex is not a part of it. They’re not in the picture, they’re not even on your radar. When your ex tries to come crawling back, they’re basically irrelevant.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because your relationship failed for a reason, and it’s because either the timing wasn’t there, or you both weren’t right for each other. You don’t believe in recycling relationships. Your ex isn’t an empty milk carton. It doesn’t make sense to go back to them or to let them come back to you.
(January 21st to February 18th)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because you believe in people being ‘right’ for each other, and you and your ex just aren’t. You won’t try to fit someone into your life who you know doesn’t belong there. You don’t hate your ex or wish them a life of misery, you just don’t want to have a romantic relationship with them ever again, and that’s completely fine.
(February 19th to March 20th)
You won’t let your ex come crawling back because it’s just not worth it. You’d rather give your love to someone who will appreciate it, not someone who takes it and uses it for their own convenience only. Love in your eyes isn’t about convenience, it’s about being with someone you can’t imagine ever being without.