You Are Too Cute To Cry Over Him

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You are too strong to be this upset over him. You have been through worse things. You have had your heart clawed to shreds in the past. You have pushed through the most painful days of your life, which means you can survive this, too.

It’s going to be hard — you might spend nights crying and mornings hitting snooze — but eventually you will get up again. You will live without him. You will thrive without him. It might not feel like it now, but you will end up happier than you’ve ever been without him.

You are too loved to be this upset over him. Even though you no longer have his heart in your hands, that doesn’t mean that you’re all alone. It doesn’t mean that you’re going to spend every weekend at home, daydreaming about what could have been.

You have other people who care about you. You have parents who are worried about how long you’ve been staying in bed lately. You have friends who are wondering why you haven’t been out with them in so long. You have plenty of people who are there for you, ready to help you overcome this heartache.

You are too intelligent to be this upset over him. You know that there are more important things in this world than relationships. You know that, at the end of the day, missing someone who chose to leave you, who chose to split your heart in two, isn’t all that bad.

In fact, it’s better off this way. If he doesn’t see how special you are, if he doesn’t care about all of the love you have to give, then he might as well head for the door. It’s his mistake. It’s his loss. He is the one who should be mourning the relationship, not you.

You are too talented to be this upset over him. Think of all of the ways you could be spending your time, other than moping around about him. You could be focusing on your passion. You could be working toward your dreams. You could be creating a name for yourself.

You have what it takes to become successful. One day, he is going to come across your Instagram feed and feel himself deflate when he sees everything you’ve accomplished. One day, he is going to realize that he gave up on the most talented girl he is ever going to meet.

You are too cute to be this upset over him. Don’t let him ruin your makeup. Don’t let him destroy your self-esteem. He is just one boy in a world full of them.

There are other people who will be attracted to you. Other people who will love your insides and outsides. Other people who will actually treat you right.

You are too confident to be this upset over him. Do you really think it’s a good idea to stay with someone who never saw the real you? Someone who neglected you? Someone who underestimated you?

You deserve a real love. A love you never have to question. A love with someone who sees all that you’re worth. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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