Stay Single Until You Find A Love That Doesn’t Make You Feel Lonely

Stay Single Until You Find A Love That Doesn’t Make You Feel Lonely

Love is never easy. It never has been. It requires a lot from you, but it doesn’t guarantee anything. Your goal will always be settling down with the same person until the end, but it may turn the other way around. You will invest your emotion, time, and effort to keep what you’re holding on to. Then again, it will never be easy.

After all your sacrifices, you don’t deserve a love that gives you doubt. With all those unanswered calls and text messages, you can never be at ease. You are not staying in a relationship just to keep hanging. You deserve to fly while holding his hand. You deserve to know how he feels for you. You deserve to feel how much he loves you. You need assurance as much as you need him.

You don’t deserve a love that keeps you unsafe. You should not stay with someone who doesn’t mind asking if you’re OK or not. You need a person who cares for you. You deserve someone who can’t sleep knowing that you aren’t home yet. You deserve a shoulder to lean on. You deserve an arm to protect you from the monsters beneath your bed.

You don’t deserve a love that makes you lonely. It’s like your presence became a total annoyance to the person you love. It seems that he forgot how to celebrate your birthdays and anniversaries. His efforts in the beginning have come to an end. Well, wake up. You deserve someone who makes you feel special, every day, consistently. You deserve a love that keeps the blush on your cheeks. You deserve a person whose happiness is to keep that smile on your face.

You don’t deserve a love that leaves questions. All those “what-ifs” and “whys” should not be in your head. You don’t deserve a love that gives you constant paranoia. You should not be with someone who makes you wonder what is happening. Start thinking about what you deserve instead of what you’re lacking. You have every right to be with someone who makes you a better person, not someone who ruins you.

You deserve to be loved purely, wholeheartedly, and happily. Be with someone who deserves your heart and will keep it for the rest of his life. TC mark

Anne Jeneth Lopez

A 25-year-old human who’s topmost goal is to be genuinely happy.

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