I pride myself in being an independent person; however, when at my most vulnerable, I feel the absence of a special someone.
A question that we should be asking is what we will give that person when they magically stumble into our lives? It is human nature to desire certain qualities and characteristics and those may play a significant role when falling in love. However, maintaining that love and appreciation is not really about what you want at all. It is more so about what you give, what you give with genuine intentions and wholeheartedly.
They do things that suggest they desire further commitment but in reality that’s not what they want. I have yet to determine if it is because they are just “too nice” of guys or just plain oblivious.
My fears are smaller than my dreams and yours should be too.
1. Your mother’s instincts are usually right.