If She Wants To Be With You, She Will Be

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It goes without saying that we have all had to deal with rejection from a romantic interest at some point in our lives. Whether we like it or not, it’s a part of life. Plain and simple.

However, the one thing I want males to understand is that relationships take time, and you should be focused on getting the attention of that special girl.

With that being said, at the end of the day, if she wants to be with you, she will be. Plain and simple.

She just needs a little time to see the real you and evaluate who you are as a person, before she can make a truly informed decision, so don’t expect things to move too quickly, because if you do, then it will turn into a disaster.

My advice for anyone waiting for the particular girl would be:

Do not chase after her. Merely take a step back if you need to, and patiently allow the waiting game to play its course.

For, if your dream girl wants to be with you, she will at some point, just be patient and let time take its course. It will all be worth it, in the end.

There is no need to rush into something because sometimes the best relationships start off as getting to know each other as friends and developing that vital kinship, while remembering that if she wants to be with you, she will be.

I know sometimes waiting for that special someone isn’t easy but sometimes you just have to take a second and enjoy the friendship you have, no matter how hard it may be. 

Often, time is the best tool when it comes to starting a relationship, getting to know a girl and ultimately wishing to sweep her off her feet. Maybe by the time you’re done building a friendship with her, she will want to be with you but if she doesn’t, she doesn’t.

You see, girls have an absolute type. They know exactly what they want in a partner so if she knows in her heart that you’re the one for her, then she’ll be with you.

Plain and simple. 

If she wants to be with you, she will be. if not, take what you learn from the mistakes that you could have made while getting to know the girl that you wanted to pursue in a relationship or an ex-girlfriend you wanted back your life and do better next time.

If she wants to be with you, she will be in the long run if she is confident in you and likes what you have to offer her as a significant other. The thing to keep in mind is that it all takes time.

If you ask me, time is the best thing that could improve a budding relationship because time can build a great foundation for the journey you must take in order to establish a great connection with the person.

If she wants to be with you, she will be, so there’s no need to rush into anything major right at the moment. It is important to take a time out and enjoy working on the friendship or in some people cases, fixing what’s broken because if she wants to be with you she will be willing to mend the broken parts of your relationship. TC mark

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