8 If every one of their failed relationships was the other person’s fault. The one you’re dating was never even slightly responsible.
The reason I say it’s a yellow flag is that some people just have incredibly shitty taste in partners, and it’s possible that in a naive pursuit of “love”, they got into a series of abusive relationships. This is especially true if they’ve been abused for a long time and are simply “trained” to seek out and remain in these kinds of relationships.
9. I call it “aggro-flirting” where they’re constantly jabbing at you and trying to play it off in a flirtatious way. It’s one thing if it’s like 2 times over the course of the night, but I’ve gone on dates with people where it seems like they’re looking for a weak spot or something. It’s not a deal breaker but it’s something watch out for definitely.