1. Whatever intimacy issues that come up are always understated. They get 10x worse. If you have any intimacy issues when dating, don’t make the mistake of expecting it to get better with time. It will only get worse.
2. When I met her parents and all they did was yell at each other.
Turns out that’s how she thought couples should communicate.
It didn’t end well.
3. Looking back, her friends acting surprised when she wanted to do anything should’ve been a red flag. Turns out all she ever really wanted to do was watch movies. She was brilliant at faking an entirely different persona, though, and nobody said anything to me about it until after the wedding.