18. If she has no self-control over eating, she WILL blimp out once she is married and will give no fucks about changing it.
19. Not married, but my previous (longest) relationship. If they’re willing to talk shit about anyone no in the room, it’s a safe bet they do the same about you. Add to that if you’re expected to change everything about yourself, while they change nothing, you’re doomed to fail.
She was also a shitty lay.