46. Oh yes, many red flags. I guess he wasn’t ‘completely’ different after marriage.. He cheated on me a bunch, I forgave it all, then 2 months after the wedding he told me he was polyamorous. TOLD me, didn’t ask if it’s something we could try, whatever. So he started dating and sleeping with other women.
I was a total dumbass. He figured I was such a doormat before the wedding, that after it, he could really get away with whatever he wanted.
We are divorced, and I’m happier than I’ve ever been with a new man who has eyes only for me.
47. My ex fiance after I asked her to marry me became clingy. She would call me and text through my entire work day and then if I didn’t respond quick enough I’d get a passive aggressive text, voicemail, or email about how she feels like I’m cheating on her. Eventually I was tired of the accusation and the apologies I had given even though I did nothing wrong.