4. Literally zero communication. At first I thought it was because his ex used to yell and fight at the drop of a hat, but then when I tried to be understanding and calm, he still shut down. When we were planning our wedding, he said he was sure his parents would give us the same amount they gave to his brother, but he refused to sit down and ask them and we ended up with debt from paying for things with a credit card at the last minute.
5. That he had never been in a serious relationship before. Turns out, there’s a reason for that.
6. I was talking to a girl for about two weeks and she went thru my phone. Usually, I would immediately walk away because that’s insane. She found nothing and I decided it was OK because she was the first girl I’ve liked in awhile and I was tired of fucking around and having one night stands.
Fast forward 8 months and I find out she had hacked into my Instagram, Facebook and snapchat. And guess what, again found nothing. The relationship became toxic when I changed all my passwords and she was constantly questioning what I was doing and where I was.
I should’ve walked away the very first time she went through my phone.