38. How they treat their parents can be very telling, too.
Some will explain away this bad behavior by saying that particular parent was horrible to them. In this case, you go no contact or reduce contact to the bare civil minimum. Ideally, you also get some therapy because there is obviously issues.
But if he’s abusive to his mother while treating her like an ATM machine? Yeah, you’re next.
39. While we were dating, I was talking about how I liked the Beatles and he for whatever reason thought that was stupid. So he threw my laptop across the room. He ended up being abusive while we were married. Marriage lasted about 8 months.