26. Had an ex tell me “women look for a guy like their dad”. Seemed odd she’d ever say that to me considering she always told me her dad was abusive. She would refuse to hang out with me for days-weeks without any context or explanation, and when I’d try to talk to her about things, she’d turn it back on me saying I didn’t trust her. We finally broke up after a few months, turned out she cheated on me for some crack head from high school, and when we broke up she told her friends and other people back at home that I was abusive. Luckily we both grew up in the same general neighborhoods and people didn’t believe her. God she was nuckin futs now that I look back on it.
27. She quit her job to “stay home and clean.” Work was “stressful.” But, the house was never any more clean. I usually did the cleaning. I was fully supporting her, and worked extra hours to do so. Rarely home, for her sake. Then I started to notice how one of my friends was overly nice to her, and she to him.
On my birthday, I discovered that she had been fucking him in my home for months. Fairly certain their relationship began BEFORE her and I were married. I filed for divorce, and she got a bunch of free stuff out of it. No fault divorce is bullshit.
She’s one of the most selfish people I’ve ever met – I just hoped that it was different with us.