20. I ate pussy for the first time and realized that I liked it just as much as I like sucking dick. That was when I realized I was sexually into femme people.
Then about a year ago I started making a lot more queer femme friends, and I realized that I also kinda wanted to like, flirt with and date some of them.
I’m generally not attracted to straight women, so it took a while for me to figure out the romantic component because I barely knew any queer people for a long time.
21. Accidentally saw gay porn and immediately was like, “Aaaahhh so many things in my life make much more sense now.” Seriously it took me almost 18 years to realize it.