Ladies, You Are Not Selfish For Doing These 50 Things

Ladies, You Are Not Selfish For Doing These 50 Things

49. Acknowledging that you don’t have the power/resources to care for a loved one and seeking help from a nursing home or adult protective services.

Dementia is no fucking joke and it can slowly kill the souls of the family as well as the person suffering from the disease. Caregiver burnout can lead to psychoses, heart attacks, strokes, and suicide. These diseases can cause sufferers to become abusive and violent. The commercial ideal of the well-kept grandma who occasionally forgets things is so, so far from the truth for many families.

It’s sad and causes so much guilt and anguish, but that’s the reality we must live with.

50. Telling your family “no” when you feel you have maxed out your contribution to whatever cause they are campaigning. Especially when their methods of negotiation include applying guilt. TC mark

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