You are allowed to turn down plans to spend time in your bedroom alone. It’s okay if you prefer your own company. These people from Ask Reddit feel the exact same way.
1. Sometimes I dread hanging out with friends even if I like them A LOT, just because I just enjoy my alone time and socializing can be tiring.
2. “Being alone together” is very much a thing in a relationship and is something important if one or both partners are introverts.
You can be in the same room, each doing their own thing, but still silently enjoy each other’s company.
3. I almost always secretly wish that people will cancel. When I do go I’m always happy I did but when someone cancels it makes me feel relieved.
