9. Girl here: how she feels about her exes. If she hates them all with a passion, calls them insane etc there’s a chance she’s over playing it and will add you to the list when you break up because she can’t handle rejection. Healthy, adjusted adults should be able to leave a relationship on good terms.
10. Ask are you in debt? Student loans, IRS, credit cards.
11. Does she even want a committed relationship? It’s possible that she may not, or that she may not want one with you.