7. Ask her if she thinks she can live without sex. If you’re a man of average libido or higher, you want a woman who at least struggles with the answer. If you get a quick “yes, of course,” then you’re dating a future low libido person. You should at least be aware that that is in your future. Often in the throes of your first year or two it is difficult to know what a person’s steady-state view of sex will be… over time it is generally not the same as when you first meet… it is invariably lower.
8. Do you live together? If not I would definitely havea serious conversation about morning habits, cleaning routines, pet preferences, dishes, laundry, etc thoughts. I know these are probably not as important as some of the others said but if you have never lived together, you would have no idea. Not deal breakers but worth a conversation.