50 Questions To Ask A Girl Before Committing To Her 

50 Questions Men Ask Women Before They Commit

Before you commit to someone, you should ask them these questions from Ask Reddit to make sure you are compatible.

3. These topics aren’t a “yes” or “no” answer, but more things you’ll have to assess based on how you know her. Personally, I find these value areas to be the source of the demise or success of most relationships:

  • Outlook on money and budgeting. You should be mostly similar if you want to build anything together.

  • Maturity. Life isn’t a Disney fairytale. Is she ready to be your partner or does she want you to always put out her fires because “you are the man”? Some guys disagree with me here though and are looking for a more traditional housewife type, so you may disagree and that’s fine but, to me, this is important because I’m not looking for a dependent.

  • Confidence. Is she confident enough to not demand to, or secretly do so, go through your phone every time you innocently come home late or want to hang out with your friends? Jealousy doesn’t show how much you love someone, it shows how insecure you are about yourself as being valuable.

  • Emotional stability. How does she react to negative in her life? If she melts down when Starbucks forgets her straw, that anger will eventfully be turned on you when you don’t act as she wants. If her ex was always wrong, you will probably always be wrong in disagreements too.

  • Love language. You should be able to make each other feel appreciated naturally. If you feel appreciation through acts of service, she should recognize and respect that without too much work. If she does through words of affirmation, you should be able to roll off compliments without too much work too.

  • Religious/Political Values: if either of these are important to you or her, you should be almost identical. It’s hard to reconcile these differences. Some people do, but it’s still hard.

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