40. You should ask yourself what is most important to you for your life then ask her how she feels about these things. This could be religion, wanting to own your own home, having children, traveling the world, etc.
You should also talk about how you want the relationship to work. For example, exclusive, mutual trust, decisions made together, etc.
As others have said, in many relationships this is found out and agreed upon over time so know that if you want to short-cut that with one conversation then it’s going to be pretty intense. Good luck my dude!
41. Not really a question, but the people she hangs around with can be a good indication of what she is ‘really’ like and not just how she acts around you.