18. My father in law is a man of few words so when I told him I wanted to marry his daughter (I didn’t ask because my girlfriend and I were both in our thirties at the time, but I did want to tell him I was proposing) all I got was “Good.”
19. I asked a while before I was planning on proposing as we didn’t see them often.
I can’t remember the details but he said yes.
What I later found out was that asking meant a huge deal to him and he really appreciated it even though he knew I didn’t have to ask and it wasn’t expected
His other son in law and daughter just went round and said they were getting married. They didn’t get on.