4. I actually asked both of her parents. I took them out to dinner, had a great conversation with them about things. They were ecstatic about it. Her dad was thrilled that I made an occasion out of it, their other 2 daughter’s husbands just snuck up to him at his work and asked him, and her mom was really happy that I involved her as well since the other husbands hadn’t done so either. I definitely got brownie points all around.
5. Actually not bad, got a more or less answer of “what took you so long” and “we already think of you as family.”