39. Don’t tell her she’s not like other girls.
“Tell me I’m ‘not like other girls….Because you’re immediately comparing me to or pitting me against other girls. It’s a red flag. Also this statement is usually followed by ‘Other girls are ‘crazy’ or ’emotional’ you seem really chill.’ This article explains it well: ‘So while our initial reaction may be to blush, what we quickly realize is the subtext: we’re dating a guy who thinks all girls are sh*t, even if we’re apparently the exception.’”