33 Men Confess What They Worry About Before Hooking Up With A Woman For The First Time


1. Not getting it up.

“On two occasions I’ve had the normal build up to sleeping with a girl, both of us really hot for each and all that, and then couldn’t get hard. So I worry about that.”


2. Not satisfying her.

“Not satisfying her.”


2. Worrying that I’m too small.

“I had a girlfriend make a joke in sense calling my manhood small. To my face, while in bed. So that’s stuck with me for a while.”


4. I make sure I’m fully ready before she sees it for the first time.

“As a grower I make sure I’m fully ready before she sees it for the first time.”


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Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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