1. Completely unable to manage money. Spent every dollar he came across on gaming and constantly put off paying important bills. Would’ve dragged us both into bankruptcy if I would’ve stayed with him.
2. I moved across the world for him. He kept telling me “one day I want to propose.” Or “I can’t wait for you to be my wife.” That proposal never came, and I was having visa issues, so after a few years I gave up and moved back.
3. He was obsessed in making me look/speak better. He would control my food intake and make me exercise everyday. Whenever I was out with him I had to wear heels, dress well, and he would point out what other girls were wearing that I should try on. Putting makeup is a must even when I’m on a plane.
I wasn’t allow to speak other language aside from english and not allowed to watch dramas that were trash to him.
My last straw was him asking me to consider getting a boob job when I lost so much weight from all the exercise/controlled diet. I realized I cannot live this way anymore and he will never be satisfied ever.
Even though I still love him, I was mentally drained and constantly felt that I was ugly and unworthy.